simplify(agent): drop the unused public Agent.abort(), keep whenIdle()

The public Agent handle exposed abort() (step-only) and cancel() (queue-aware).
No production caller used abort() — ACP maps session/cancel to cancel(), and
lifecycle owners tear down via AgentHandle.dispose(); the loop's own stop paths
abort their per-step AbortController directly. So abort() is latent generality
that keeps a private loop mechanic public.

RFC-premise correction: the public-agent-stop-surface RFC proposed removing
whenIdle() too. Implementation found whenIdle() load-bearing — a real
quiescence primitive with a deliberate loop contract (settle-without-transition,
the replacement-turn race) and ACP test consumers; its proposed replacement
("observe the running->idle transition") is exactly the async-state race
AGENTS.md warns against. So only abort() is removed; whenIdle() stays. The RFC
is amended on the way to implemented/ to record the narrowed scope, and the new
AGENTS.md "RFCs are proposals, not golden truth" principle (PR1) gets its
worked example.

- Remove Agent.abort() from the interface + the ReactLoopAgent impl; the no-arg
  'aborted' default goes with it (cancel() keeps its 'cancelled' default).
- Migrate tests: empty-queue abort() -> cancel(reason); the two review-fixes
  tests whose subject is the in-flight step's AbortController drive that
  controller directly via the private currentAbort field (cancel() would clear
  the inbox and destroy the queued steering one of them proves survives a step
  abort). The no-arg-default test is dropped (cancel()'s default is already
  covered in cancel.spec.ts).
- Resulting public stop surface: cancel() + whenIdle(). Update agent/agent-loop
  READMEs, architecture.md, core.md type-equiv, the extension cookbook, the
  lifecycle RFC (short note), and the proposed ACP RFC.

Implements docs/rfc/implemented/simplification/2026-06-20-public-agent-stop-surface.md

packages/core/agent/README.md

@@ -56,9 +56,8 @@ The handle every plugin programs against:
 - `agent.send(content, options?)` — queue a message; starts a turn when idle
 - `agent.steer(content, options?)` — steer a running turn (inject between steps); behaves like `send` when idle
 - `agent.inject(content, options?)` — inject in-session context (context/message event); the next request sees it. Does not run the model. While a turn is open it joins that turn; while idle it is wrapped in a one-shot `injection` turn so every event stays turn-enclosed ([the turn-enclosure invariant](../../../docs/rfc/implemented/architecture/2026-06-15-turn-enclosure-invariant.md))
-- `agent.abort(reason?)` — abort the in-flight step (the narrow, step-only verb)
-- `agent.cancel(reason?)` — cancel ALL pending work: clears the queued + steering FIFOs, aborts the in-flight step, and drops a turn about to start (the pre-step window) so a queued-but-not-started prompt never runs. A UI/ACP `session/cancel` maps to this. Idle with nothing pending → a safe no-op.
-- `agent.whenIdle()` — resolve once the agent reaches quiescence after settling out of `running` (idle → immediately; disposed → awaits the loop exit), the signal a teardown awaits (`abort()` then `await whenIdle()`). Observes the transition without disposing the agent.
+- `agent.cancel(reason?)` — cancel ALL pending work: clears the queued + steering FIFOs, aborts the in-flight step, and drops a turn about to start (the pre-step window) so a queued-but-not-started prompt never runs. A UI/ACP `session/cancel` maps to this. The single public stop primitive. Idle with nothing pending → a safe no-op.
+- `agent.whenIdle()` — resolve once the agent reaches quiescence after settling out of `running` (idle → immediately; disposed → awaits the loop exit), the signal a teardown awaits (a lifecycle owner disposes the handle, which aborts in-flight work then awaits this). Observes the transition without disposing the agent.
 - `agent.session`, `agent.status`, `agent.options`, `agent.id`
 
 ### Extension points