simplify(agent): drop the unused public Agent.abort(), keep whenIdle()

The public Agent handle exposed abort() (step-only) and cancel() (queue-aware).
No production caller used abort() — ACP maps session/cancel to cancel(), and
lifecycle owners tear down via AgentHandle.dispose(); the loop's own stop paths
abort their per-step AbortController directly. So abort() is latent generality
that keeps a private loop mechanic public.

RFC-premise correction: the public-agent-stop-surface RFC proposed removing
whenIdle() too. Implementation found whenIdle() load-bearing — a real
quiescence primitive with a deliberate loop contract (settle-without-transition,
the replacement-turn race) and ACP test consumers; its proposed replacement
("observe the running->idle transition") is exactly the async-state race
AGENTS.md warns against. So only abort() is removed; whenIdle() stays. The RFC
is amended on the way to implemented/ to record the narrowed scope, and the new
AGENTS.md "RFCs are proposals, not golden truth" principle (PR1) gets its
worked example.

- Remove Agent.abort() from the interface + the ReactLoopAgent impl; the no-arg
  'aborted' default goes with it (cancel() keeps its 'cancelled' default).
- Migrate tests: empty-queue abort() -> cancel(reason); the two review-fixes
  tests whose subject is the in-flight step's AbortController drive that
  controller directly via the private currentAbort field (cancel() would clear
  the inbox and destroy the queued steering one of them proves survives a step
  abort). The no-arg-default test is dropped (cancel()'s default is already
  covered in cancel.spec.ts).
- Resulting public stop surface: cancel() + whenIdle(). Update agent/agent-loop
  READMEs, architecture.md, core.md type-equiv, the extension cookbook, the
  lifecycle RFC (short note), and the proposed ACP RFC.

Implements docs/rfc/implemented/simplification/2026-06-20-public-agent-stop-surface.md

docs/architecture.md

@@ -113,7 +113,7 @@ Tool schemas are deliberately **part of the assembly**: "what the model is told
 - `steer(content)` — mid-turn injection, drained **between steps**; behaves like `send` when idle
 - `inject(content)` — in-session context (`context/message` event); the next request sees it (Claude Code attachment / system-reminder analog). An inject made while the agent is *running* joins the open turn; an inject while *idle* is wrapped in a one-shot turn (`turn/start{trigger:injection}` → `context/message` → `turn/end`) so every event stays turn-enclosed (see [the turn-enclosure invariant](rfc/implemented/architecture/2026-06-15-turn-enclosure-invariant.md)).
 - `abort(reason)` — aborts the in-flight step via `AbortSignal`
-- `cancel(reason)` — the broad cancel: clears queued + steering work, aborts the in-flight step, and drops a turn about to start (the pre-step window) so a queued-but-not-started prompt never runs and cannot be batched into the cancelled turn. `abort()` is the narrower step-only verb; `cancel()` is what a UI/ACP `session/cancel` maps to.
+- `cancel(reason)` — the single public stop primitive: clears queued + steering work, aborts the in-flight step, and drops a turn about to start (the pre-step window) so a queued-but-not-started prompt never runs and cannot be batched into the cancelled turn. A UI/ACP `session/cancel` maps to it.
 - `whenIdle()` — resolves once the agent reaches quiescence after settling out of `running` (resolves immediately when already idle; awaits the loop exit when disposed). The teardown signal: `abort()` then `await whenIdle()` guarantees the in-flight turn has fully stopped. Observes the transition without disposing the agent.
 - `session`, `status`, `options`
 
@@ -159,7 +159,7 @@ forever:
   emit agent/status(idle) unless more queued
 ```
 
-Error containment: a throwing `agent/turn-continuation` listener or a broken step ends the **turn** with an `error` event (appended INSIDE the turn, before `turn/end`) — never the driver loop. An adapter that ends its stream with a `finish {kind:'error'}` or `{kind:'aborted'}` chunk (the in-band error path, for adapters that can't throw mid-stream) is likewise translated into a step error, so the turn ends `error`/`aborted` instead of logging a normal `completed` assistant message. `abort()` is honored mid-stream **and** between tool calls; disposal mid-turn ends the turn with reason `disposed` and emits `agent/status('disposed')`.
+Error containment: a throwing `agent/turn-continuation` listener or a broken step ends the **turn** with an `error` event (appended INSIDE the turn, before `turn/end`) — never the driver loop. An adapter that ends its stream with a `finish {kind:'error'}` or `{kind:'aborted'}` chunk (the in-band error path, for adapters that can't throw mid-stream) is likewise translated into a step error, so the turn ends `error`/`aborted` instead of logging a normal `completed` assistant message. A `cancel()` is honored mid-stream **and** between tool calls; disposal mid-turn ends the turn with reason `disposed` and emits `agent/status('disposed')`.
 
 Turn-end reasons: a turn ends with one `TurnEndReason` — `completed`, `aborted`, `error`, `disposed`, or `max-tokens`. `max-tokens` mirrors the model-call `FinishReason` of the same name (DeepSeek's `length`): a step that hit the output-token ceiling makes the turn end `max-tokens` rather than `completed`, by the rule *any `max-tokens` step in the turn surfaces as `max-tokens`* (a continuation plugin may run further steps after one, but the cut-short fact wins; the `disposed`/`aborted`/`error` outcomes still take precedence). This lets a consumer distinguish a clean stop from a truncated one (the ACP bridge maps it to the `max_tokens` stop reason). `TurnEndReason` is merge-extensible; `refusal` and `max_turn_requests` are the next variants to add when an adapter/loop first emits them.