Fix doc cross-links for the hierarchy; add package-path + shape gates

Merge brought in the RFC-classification reorg and two new doc gates;
rewrite every drifted packages/<name> cross-link (Markdown link targets,
moved-README relative depths, and .ts comment paths) to the grouped paths.

Add two doc-sync/hygiene gates so the manual checks this restructure
needed become automated:
- verify-package-paths.ts: flags a packages/<path> reference (in Markdown
  or a .ts comment/string) that does not resolve AND names a real package
  in a segment — i.e. a stale path to a MOVED package. A path naming a
  non-existent package (a forward-looking proposal) is left alone, so it
  applies uniformly across proposed/implemented/rejected.
- check-workspace-constraints: assert the packages/<group>/<pkg> depth-2
  shape (group dirs carry no package.json; no flat or over-nested
  packages). Group names stay open; only the shape is fixed.

docs/cookbook/adding-an-llm-adapter.md

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 # Cookbook: adding an LLM adapter
 
-How to connect a new model provider. Reference implementations: `packages/llm-deepseek` (hand-rolled HTTP/SSE) and `packages/llm-pi-ai` (wrapping an LLM library). Read the `StreamChunk` doc in `packages/llm/src/types.ts` first — it records the protocol conventions both adapters were verified against.
+How to connect a new model provider. Reference implementations: `packages/llm/llm-deepseek` (hand-rolled HTTP/SSE) and `packages/llm/llm-pi-ai` (wrapping an LLM library). Read the `StreamChunk` doc in `packages/llm/llm/src/types.ts` first — it records the protocol conventions both adapters were verified against.
 
 ## The shape