refactor(session-persistence): extract a shared write coordinator

The JSONL and SQLite backends were byte-identical (or same-algorithm) for ALL
of their write-path orchestration — the four maps (states/buffers/chains/inits),
installWritePath, initFor, onCreated's four adoption cases, flush, drain,
serialize, adopt/adoptLivePrefix, assertVersion, and the create/append/load/
has/delete skeletons. Only the storage primitives (write bytes vs INSERT rows)
differed, so every fix landed twice.

Extract that orchestration into a PersistenceCoordinator in the seam package.
Each backend composes one (new PersistenceCoordinator(ctx, this)), implements a
small PersistenceBackend hook interface (loadStored, loadLive, appendBatch,
commitRepair, deleteStored, list, optional close), and delegates its six public
service methods to it. Composition, not inheritance — a backend exposes only the
hooks, can't reach the coordinator's private state, and the public
SessionPersistence API is unchanged so a third-party backend may still implement
it directly.

The crash-repair torn-tail token is OPAQUE: the coordinator computes the
synthetic closers (it owns interruptedTurnClosers) but only tests
`tornMarker !== undefined` and round-trips it to commitRepair, never inspecting
it (JSONL = byte offset, SQLite = seq). loadStored vs loadLive stay distinct so
HMR adoption is cwd-scoped (a same-id log at a different cwd is a collision, not
a resume). appendBatch carries meta so lazy-materialize + first-batch commit
atomically (no separate materialize hook).

Tests: the duplicated orchestration tests (adoption, HMR, collision,
dispose-drain, crash-tail) move into one runCoordinatorContract suite run once
per backend (memory + jsonl + sqlite) via hook fixtures; per-backend specs keep
only storage mechanics. A through-coordinator torn-tail test per real backend
keeps the commitRepair-with-marker branch covered under the 100% gate.

Net -112 lines (the dedup outweighs the new coordinator + shared suite); 100%
coverage; backends shrank ~1200 lines of duplicated churn. Migrates the
write-coordinator RFC proposed -> implemented.

docs/rfc/implemented/2026-06-19-drop-mutable-session-summary.md

@@ -20,7 +20,7 @@ Delete the mutable session summary entirely. `SessionSummary` and the `SessionMe
 
 Anything the summary was meant to provide is **derivable from the append-only log** when a consumer actually needs it (`firstPrompt` = first `user/message`; recency = the last event's `time` or the file mtime) or already lives in the immutable header (`createdAt`, `cwd`). The one thing *not* derivable — a user-*edited* title — had no implementation and is pure YAGNI; it can return as its own log event or header field if a real feature ever needs it.
 
-This is recorded as a decision because it is **durable** (it narrows a public service contract and an on-disk format across two backends), **contested** (the summary was a deliberate forward-looking design, not an accident), and **surprising** (a future reader finding `SessionHeader` where the original RFC describes `SessionMeta` would otherwise ask why the summary vanished). It also unblocks the [shared persistence write coordinator](../proposed/2026-06-18-shared-persistence-write-coordinator.md): with no mutable summary, the coordinator's hook interface needs no `updateSummary` hook and the JSONL-sidecar-vs-SQLite-column durability divergence disappears, so the two backends' write paths converge.
+This is recorded as a decision because it is **durable** (it narrows a public service contract and an on-disk format across two backends), **contested** (the summary was a deliberate forward-looking design, not an accident), and **surprising** (a future reader finding `SessionHeader` where the original RFC describes `SessionMeta` would otherwise ask why the summary vanished). It also unblocks the [shared persistence write coordinator](2026-06-18-shared-persistence-write-coordinator.md): with no mutable summary, the coordinator's hook interface needs no `updateSummary` hook and the JSONL-sidecar-vs-SQLite-column durability divergence disappears, so the two backends' write paths converge.
 
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