refactor(telemetry): remove the OTel backend's flush forwarding

Three review rounds each found a new silent-loss path in the same
wrapper state (dispose racing an in-flight flush, overlapping hints
displacing the retained promise, the provider's fixed 30s flush timeout
rejecting while the processor still drains). Every path exists only
because forwarding the seam's turn-boundary hint to forceFlush() made
this backend the process's second flusher against undocumented SDK
internals from the upstream experimental tree.

The backend now implements no flush(): the batch processor is the only
flusher, its scheduledDelayMillis (already deployment-tunable through
the processor passthrough) governs export cadence, and shutdown()'s
drain is complete by construction. The two race-pin tests collapse into
one dispose-during-in-flight-batch drain pin; the seam's optional
flush() contract now tells implementers they own the concurrent-flush/
shutdown interaction. Removal rationale and the reinstatement trigger
(a stated turn-boundary latency requirement scheduledDelayMillis cannot
meet — and then via the processor's own forceFlush(), never the
provider's timeout-wrapped one) are recorded in the revival Agent Note,
both languages.

packages/telemetry/session-telemetry/README.md

@@ -6,7 +6,7 @@ The telemetry seam: the CAPTURE side of session-event reporting, behind a backen
 
 ## The backend contract
 
-`TelemetryBackend` is three members: `emit(record)` (MUST be a non-blocking enqueue — it runs synchronously on the `session/event` hot path), optional `flush()` (a turn-boundary hint, fire-and-forget), and `shutdown()` (the lifecycle forward: flush-and-quiesce, awaited at dispose). `Telemetry` is its service-registered form under the `telemetry` context key — one implementation per context, duplicate load throws. A backend composes `TelemetryCoordinator` in its constructor.
+`TelemetryBackend` is three members: `emit(record)` (MUST be a non-blocking enqueue — it runs synchronously on the `session/event` hot path), optional `flush()` (a turn-boundary hint, fire-and-forget; most backends leave it unimplemented and let their SDK's batching cadence govern export timing — an implementer owns the interaction between concurrent flushes and `shutdown()`'s drain), and `shutdown()` (the lifecycle forward: drain-and-quiesce, awaited at dispose). `Telemetry` is its service-registered form under the `telemetry` context key — one implementation per context, duplicate load throws. A backend composes `TelemetryCoordinator` in its constructor.
 
 ## Capture points