feat(web): grow real node halves in connection and hmr

connection binds the web transport: it injects httpServer + apiProxy and
registers toFetchHandler(ctx.apiProxy) under the /api prefix (the node:http
to fetch bridge moves in from the webserver, keeping the res-close disconnect
detection and drain/close backpressure waits). hmr owns dev reload: a
stat-poll watch per graph row driven by clientModuleHost.onGraphChanged,
rebuilt(id) on content change, and the /plugins/events SSE route (GET/HEAD
guarded); frame types are single-sourced in events.ts shared by both halves.

packages/client/connection/src/http-bridge.ts

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+/**
+ * node:http ↔ WHATWG fetch bridge for the /api transport (host side of the
+ * web carrier; the fetch-shaped handler itself is transport-agnostic).
+ */
+
+import type { IncomingMessage, ServerResponse } from 'node:http'
+
+/** Bridge one node:http request to the fetch-shaped handler (client close aborts; SSE bodies stream out chunk by chunk). */
+export async function bridge(req: IncomingMessage, res: ServerResponse, apiHandler: { fetch: typeof fetch }): Promise<void> {
+  const abort = new AbortController()
+  // Client-disconnect detection MUST hang off the response, not the request:
+  // since Node 16, IncomingMessage 'close' fires as soon as the request body is
+  // fully consumed (immediately for a bodyless GET), which would abort every SSE
+  // stream right after open. ServerResponse 'close' fires on connection teardown;
+  // writableEnded distinguishes a normal end() from the client going away.
+  res.on('close', () => {
+    if (!res.writableEnded) abort.abort()
+  })
+  const chunks: Buffer[] = []
+  for await (const chunk of req) chunks.push(chunk as Buffer)
+  /* v8 ignore next 3 -- `??` arms: node:http always sets url/method on server
+  requests; the fields are only optional on the client-side IncomingMessage type */
+  const request = new Request(new URL(req.url ?? '/', 'http://dsh.internal'), {
+    method: req.method ?? 'GET',
+    headers: Object.fromEntries(Object.entries(req.headers).filter(([, v]) => typeof v === 'string') as [string, string][]),
+    ...chunks.length > 0 ? { body: Buffer.concat(chunks) } : {},
+    signal: abort.signal,
+  })
+  const response = await apiHandler.fetch(request)
+  res.writeHead(response.status, Object.fromEntries(response.headers.entries()))
+  if (response.body === null) {
+    res.end()
+    return
+  }
+  for await (const chunk of response.body) {
+    // Backpressure: a false return means the socket buffer is full — wait for drain
+    // instead of buffering unboundedly (slow/suspended SSE consumers). 'close' also
+    // resolves so a mid-wait disconnect can't park this loop forever; the close
+    // handler above aborts the handler stream, which then ends the iteration.
+    if (!res.write(chunk)) {
+      await new Promise<void>((resolve) => {
+        const done = (): void => {
+          res.off('drain', done)
+          res.off('close', done)
+          resolve()
+        }
+        res.once('drain', done)
+        res.once('close', done)
+      })
+    }
+  }
+  res.end()
+}