feat(host): adaptive directory-picker default via -auto chooser

Add @deepseek-ai/dsh-host-directory-picker-auto, a node-half-only chooser
that samples the host situation once at boot (bind host via a new
httpServer.host getter, SSH markers, platform, DISPLAY/WAYLAND_DISPLAY)
and mounts the matching dual-face backend (-native or -browse) as a real
Loader entry in the in-memory root tree; the effect disposer removes it.
Entry-level mounting keeps the seam's one-row-swaps-both-faces invariant:
the client module table discovers the mounted backend's browser half
exactly as a config row's. apps/cli now composes -auto as its
directory-picker row; composing a backend row directly remains the pin.

docs/config-catalog.md

@@ -2224,6 +2224,7 @@ These load from a `cordis.yml` entry with no `config:` block; they declare no co
 - `@deepseek-ai/dsh-commands` ([`packages/ui/commands/src/index.ts`](../packages/ui/commands/src/index.ts))
 - `@deepseek-ai/dsh-fs-policy` ([`packages/fs/fs-policy/src/index.ts`](../packages/fs/fs-policy/src/index.ts))
 - `@deepseek-ai/dsh-goal-session` — requires `agents` · `goals` · `sessions` ([`packages/goal/goal-session/src/index.ts`](../packages/goal/goal-session/src/index.ts))
+- `@deepseek-ai/dsh-host-directory-picker-auto` — requires `httpServer` · `loader` ([`packages/host/directory-picker-auto/src/index.ts`](../packages/host/directory-picker-auto/src/index.ts))
 - `@deepseek-ai/dsh-host-directory-picker-native` ([`packages/host/directory-picker-native/src/index.ts`](../packages/host/directory-picker-native/src/index.ts))
 - `@deepseek-ai/dsh-llm` ([`packages/llm/llm/src/index.ts`](../packages/llm/llm/src/index.ts))
 - `@deepseek-ai/dsh-lsp` ([`packages/lsp/lsp/src/index.ts`](../packages/lsp/lsp/src/index.ts))