feat(timeout): add dsh-timeout and converge bash + web_fetch onto it

Timeout timing/classification was re-implemented three ways across the
tool-bearing capabilities, with the fusion of timeout+cancel and the
timeout-vs-cancel reason recovery being the error-prone parts. Extract that
shared half into a zero-dependency @deepseek-ai/dsh-timeout library
(clampTimeout/deadline/timeoutOf/TimeoutReason) and leave the non-shareable
hard-kill in each capability, per the timeout-library RFC.

bash: run() owns the deadline; runBash drops its killTimer and no longer
classifies (SpawnSpec/SpawnOutcome lose timeoutMs/timedOut/aborted), so the
public timedOut/aborted booleans become mutually-exclusive first-abort
classifications. web_fetch: the hand-rolled controller/timer/listener/
signal.reason dance is replaced by provider-owned deadline/timeoutOf, keeping
the WEB_FETCH_TIMEOUT / WEB_ABORTED contract. fs stays timeout-free (README
states why).

knip.json

@@ -21,6 +21,11 @@
       "project": ["src/**/*.ts"],
       "ignoreDependencies": ["cordis"]
     },
+    "packages/util/timeout": {
+      "entry": ["tests/**/*.spec.ts"],
+      "project": ["src/**/*.ts", "tests/**/*.ts"],
+      "ignoreDependencies": ["cordis"]
+    },
     "packages/llm/llm-deepseek": {
       "entry": ["tests/**/*.spec.ts", "tests/**/*.e2e.ts"],
       "project": ["src/**/*.ts", "tests/**/*.ts"]