feat(bundle): the web and one-shot apps own their own flags

dsh-web-app owns --host/--port/--dev/--workspace-root/--trusted-host and
its --help in a web-startup row; the rows it configures wait for the
webStartup service, and the client-plugin HMR receiver now ships disabled
so --dev is a row toggle rather than a runtime insert (the Loader cannot
resolve a row inserted from inside a mounting plugin).

dsh-headless owns the task positional and rejects a missing task as its own
usage error. Its runner ships disabled, not merely waiting: the schema
requires the task, and a row's config is validated when its fiber is
created, before the startup row can supply one. A composition has exactly
one command-line owner, so the patch disables the web startup row and this
one provides webStartup too, leaving the web rows on their composed
one-shot values.

The keyless web scaffold provides the same three values with no arguments,
which is what an embedding host with no command line does.

packages/bundle/headless/tsconfig.json

@@ -31,6 +31,12 @@
     },
     {
       "path": "../../support/invariants"
+    },
+    {
+      "path": "../../ui/cmdline"
+    },
+    {
+      "path": "../web-app"
     }
   ]
 }