refactor(cli): parse dsh argv through one Commander adapter

Replace the dsh CLI's three hand-rolled parsing idioms (raw argv[0]/includes
dispatch in bin.ts, per-mode node:util parseArgs in headless.ts/web.ts, and the
bespoke parseResumeArg scanner in dsh-app-boot) with a single Commander adapter
in apps/cli/src/args.ts. parseDshArgs resolves argv into a discriminated
DshInvocation union; bin.ts switches on the mode and dynamic-imports the chosen
module, which now consumes already-parsed values.

- web is a real subcommand; --host uses choices and --port an argParser range
  check, moving validation into the parser.
- --resume rejects empty and repeated forms; --prompt rejects empty; a config
  positional after --prompt and a root flag placed before web fail loud.
- adds --help/--version; removes parseResumeArg from dsh-app-boot.
- new apps/cli/tests/args.spec.ts (apps/*/tests added to vitest include,
  apps/cli/tests to tsconfig.host.json); the tui-agent keyless PTY smoke covers
  bin.ts dispatch end to end unchanged.

tsconfig.host.json

@@ -8,6 +8,7 @@
     "rewriteRelativeImportExtensions": false
   },
   "include": [
+    "apps/cli/tests/**/*.ts",
     "examples/*/src/**/*.ts",
     "examples/*/start.ts",
     "examples/*/tests/**/*.ts",