feat(retention): add dsh-retention bounded-output library

Ship @deepseek-ai/dsh-retention under packages/util/: pure ItemRetainer /
TextRetainer plus neutral notice helpers, so tools that cap model-facing
output share one "what did we keep, what did we omit, may we stop reading"
mechanic while keeping grouping, exit codes, provider errors, and recovery
prose tool-owned. The two retainers are separate names because they differ in
resource model: item-head can stop the upstream on the first over-cap probe
(shouldStop), while text tail/head-tail must read to the end. The library
documents glob/grep/bash/web_fetch/web_search mappings but migrates no tool
yet — glob/grep don't exist, and migration is deliberately separate work.

Flips the RFC to implemented/ and rewrites its skeleton to shipped reality.

knip.json

@@ -26,6 +26,11 @@
       "project": ["src/**/*.ts", "tests/**/*.ts"],
       "ignoreDependencies": ["cordis"]
     },
+    "packages/util/retention": {
+      "entry": ["tests/**/*.spec.ts"],
+      "project": ["src/**/*.ts", "tests/**/*.ts"],
+      "ignoreDependencies": ["cordis"]
+    },
     "packages/llm/llm-deepseek": {
       "entry": ["tests/**/*.spec.ts", "tests/**/*.e2e.ts"],
       "project": ["src/**/*.ts", "tests/**/*.ts"]