feat(retention): add dsh-retention bounded-output library

Ship @deepseek-ai/dsh-retention under packages/util/: pure ItemRetainer /
TextRetainer plus neutral notice helpers, so tools that cap model-facing
output share one "what did we keep, what did we omit, may we stop reading"
mechanic while keeping grouping, exit codes, provider errors, and recovery
prose tool-owned. The two retainers are separate names because they differ in
resource model: item-head can stop the upstream on the first over-cap probe
(shouldStop), while text tail/head-tail must read to the end. The library
documents glob/grep/bash/web_fetch/web_search mappings but migrates no tool
yet — glob/grep don't exist, and migration is deliberately separate work.

Flips the RFC to implemented/ and rewrites its skeleton to shipped reality.

docs/module-graph.md

@@ -9,6 +9,7 @@ Inter-package dependencies among the `@deepseek-ai/dsh-*` harness packages, deri
 flowchart TD
   subgraph group_util["packages/util"]
     pkg_brand["brand"]
+    pkg_retention["retention"]
     pkg_timeout["timeout"]
   end
   subgraph group_llm["packages/llm"]
@@ -208,6 +209,7 @@ flowchart TD
 | Package | Group | Depends on |
 | --- | --- | --- |
 | [`brand`](../packages/util/brand) | `util` | — |
+| [`retention`](../packages/util/retention) | `util` | — |
 | [`timeout`](../packages/util/timeout) | `util` | — |
 | [`app-boot`](../packages/ui/app-boot) | `ui` | — |
 | [`llm`](../packages/llm/llm) | `llm` | [`brand`](../packages/util/brand) |