docs(rfc): classify RFCs by kind via path-encoded subdirectories

Add a second axis to every RFC — its class (feature, bug-fix,
simplification, architecture, process, testing) — encoded in the path
as docs/rfc/{lifecycle}/{class}/file.md. The folder is the label, so
the closed set is enforced by structure rather than a parsed field.

Two new doc-sync gates back it:
- verify-rfc-classification: every RFC sits in a valid class folder and
  the README index lists it under the matching lifecycle→class heading.
- verify-doc-refs: every docs/*.md path cited in a packages|examples TS
  comment resolves — closes a drift class verify-md-links can't see, and
  catches the four comment refs this reorg moved.

The README gains a Classification section explaining the taxonomy and
per-class index sub-sections. A self-referential process RFC records why
the scheme is path-encoded and gated.

docs/cookbook/adding-a-vendored-package.md

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 # Cookbook: adding a vendored package
 
-When the harness needs another upstream Cordis package (e.g. `@cordisjs/plugin-http`), it is **vendored** as pinned source under `vendor/`, not added as an npm dependency — see [the vendoring decision](../rfc/implemented/2026-06-11-vendor-cordis-as-source.md) for why. [vendor/README.md](../../vendor/README.md) covers *updating* an already-vendored package; this guide is the file-by-file checklist for adding a **new** one. (Verified against the existing vendored set; if it drifts, fix it here.)
+When the harness needs another upstream Cordis package (e.g. `@cordisjs/plugin-http`), it is **vendored** as pinned source under `vendor/`, not added as an npm dependency — see [the vendoring decision](../rfc/implemented/process/2026-06-11-vendor-cordis-as-source.md) for why. [vendor/README.md](../../vendor/README.md) covers *updating* an already-vendored package; this guide is the file-by-file checklist for adding a **new** one. (Verified against the existing vendored set; if it drifts, fix it here.)
 
 ## 1. Copy the source in