fix(session): persist the delegation depth in the session header

A subagent child's recursion depth lived only in runtime AgentOptions,
so a persisted child came back from resume counted as top-level and
maxDepth stopped binding after every restart. Add
SessionHeader.delegationDepth, round-trip it through the JSONL and
SQLite backends (SQLite schema v5), restore it on agent-loop resume,
and write it when the in-process backends create a child. The seam now
owns the shared depth vocabulary (delegationDepthOf): the persisted
header is authoritative and monotone — runtime options may deepen it
but never lower it.

docs/core-data-structures/persistence.md

@@ -60,6 +60,12 @@ interface SessionHeader {
    * boundary lets resume and replay distinguish parent history from child work.
    */
   readonly seedLength?: number
+  /**
+   * Delegation depth: absent (zero) for a top-level session, parent depth + 1
+   * for a subagent child. Persisted so a recursion budget survives restart and
+   * resume — a runtime-only depth would reset a resumed child to top-level.
+   */
+  readonly delegationDepth?: number
 }
 ```
 
@@ -85,6 +91,7 @@ interface CreateSessionOptions {
     readonly parentSession?: SessionId
     readonly createdAt?: number
     readonly seedLength?: number
+    readonly delegationDepth?: number
   }
 }
 ```